The Boy at the Health Fair
I'd guess about ten years old. Spikey blonde hair, pale blue eyes, chubby little kid face.
His mother stopped by the table we were manning at the School Health Fair, mussing with the pamphlets strewn about the blue plastic tablecloth. The tri-fold cardboard display announced "Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation" in bright blue letters. Myself and another volunteer from the RI JDRF stood vigil at the table, handing out trinkets and informational packets, answering questions, and enjoying the sights.
"Hey buddy. Would you like a t-shirt?" My fellow volunteer leaned in towards the little blonde boy.
"Sure. Thanks." Shy blue eyes.
Turning to the mother, my partner asked, "Does anyone in your family have diabetes?"
She waved a green sweatshirt clad sleeve at her son. "Yeah! He does! He has diabetes."
He looked at the floor and contemplated his untied sneaker.
His mother laughed loudly and clapped him on the back. "Some days he talks about it and some days he doesn't. Today he just ain't talking!" She picked up an issue of Countdown Magazine and flipped through the pages.
"Here's your t-shirt." Pale blue eyes met my own. "I have diabetes, too, you know."
"Really?"
"Yeah. I have an insulin pump." I pointed to the pump clipped inside the pocket of my khaki skirt. "I've had diabetes since I was about six."
"I've had it since I was seven." He smiled and fingered the plastic sleeve around the blue JDRF bracelet. "It's okay... so you have it, too." He looked at all the other volunteers at the other booths.
After a beat: " You look just like the rest of them."
I stood there after he and his mother walked away, toting plastic bags filled with health fair goodies and JDRF magnets and pamphlets on bloodsugar management. His blonde head blended in with those of the other kids until I couldn't find him in the crowd anymore.
He looked just like the rest of them.
Comments
Now you got me crying. You made a huge difference in that kid's life....
Posted by: Shannon | May 26, 2006 06:36 AM
it's always nice to see someone else with diabetes.
Posted by: vicki | May 26, 2006 11:19 AM
Damnit, Kerri. Stop making me cry at work. I'm going to start charging the OC for my Kleenex supply.
Posted by: julia | May 26, 2006 11:34 AM
Must. Stop. Crying. At. Work.
Damn you, Kerri ;)
Posted by: art-sweet | May 26, 2006 01:09 PM
In my opinion, those are the kind of moments that make volunteering/working for organizations like the JDRF and the ADA worthwhile.
Posted by: Nicole Purcell | May 26, 2006 02:37 PM
Posted by: George | May 26, 2006 04:26 PM
You've got me crying too...I hate that this disease can make little kids feel so different. I wish I could scoop them all up!
Posted by: Floreksa | May 27, 2006 09:21 AM
I cried while reading this at work and a customer walked in. Seeing me teary she said "Oh Honey, I cried alot when I was pregnant too." I responded with "It's not that, I'm crying because of juvenile diabetes!" Confused, she went to the counter to do her transaction. Thanks Kerri!
Posted by: JulieShroo | May 27, 2006 09:27 AM
Kleenex is the Official Sponsor of Six Until Me.
Bacon bits were just a wee bit too late getting on board. ;)
Posted by: Kerri. | May 27, 2006 10:21 AM
Just beautifu...
Posted by: TheRealMcCoy | June 7, 2006 05:28 PM
That child will remember you for the rest of his life.
He will remember the day when he realized that, hey! It isn't just me and I can be like everyone else and you can LIVE with diabetes!
Thank you so much for that story, I, too think you should be sponsored by Kleenex.
Posted by: Kim | July 29, 2006 01:13 AM